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It is how that she started to cry. . , , (85) They painfully avoided my If is painful that they questions, avoided my questions. . , , , , , . , : 1: , , -t. 2: -t . 3: , . 4: . 3: , -- . , . , , : (86) I have to lake other people's feelings into account. , (87) One must take other people's feelings into account. , (88) It is necessary to take other people's feelings into account. ... , , (, /, /). , -- . , TO - -- : " , ?" , , , , , . . : , Si, S;, Si -- , , , a S; -- , , S, -- (, ) Si -- S; -- . , : (89) Or what will happen? ? : (90) What would happen if you failed to...? , ...? . ; : (91) One must lake other people's feelings into account. . : (92) Or what will happen? ? : (93) What would happen if you failed to take other people's feelings into account? , ? . : have to 1)You have to ( /, /...) , , ( ) One has to (). It is necessary -necessary (, ...) , , () Necessary ( ...) should I/you/one should , , () (, , ) , -. , , . . , -- , , , (94) It is necessary to behave properly in public. . (95) One should always lake people seriously. . What would happen if you failed to behave properly in public? ? ? What would happen if you failed to like people seriously? ? '.' (96) I must no get involved too deeply. He . (97) People have to avoid conflict. . What would happen if you got involved too deeply? , ? What would happen if you failed to learn to avoid conflict? , ? -, . . , , :[3] (98) It ia not possible lo iovc more than one person at a time. , (99) No one love more than one person at a time. (100) One can't love then one person at a time. H . One may not love more then one person at a time. (102) No one may be able to love more then one person al a lime. . , , . , . , , , , , . , , : Si Sa, Sa -- , , , a Si -- . , , : (103) What makes ... impossible? ...? (104) What prevents you from ...? ...? (105) What blocks you from...? ...? (106) What stops you from ...? , ...? ... -- , . , : (107) What makes your loving more then one person impossible? , ? (108) What blocks you from more then one person at a time? ? (109) What blocks you from loving more then one person al a lime? (110) What stops you from loving more than one person at a time? , ? : not possible it's not possible , , () (, ...) can no one can (nobody can) , (, , ) may , , (, ) ( ...) no one may (nobody may) ( ) can't I/you/one/people can't , , ( ) ( , , , ) no one is able nobody is able able , , (, ) ( , ) impossible it's impossible , , () (, ...) unable I/you/one people are unable , , ( ), ( / ) , , , . , . , ( ) . (111) It's impossible to find What prevents you from someone who's really finding someone who's sensitive, really sensitive? ? . ' (112) I can't understand my wife. What prevents you from understanding your wife? . ? ( 113) I am unable to express What prevents you from myself, expressing yourself? . ? ( 114) No one is able to What prevents them from understand me. understanding you? . ? , , . : 1: ; , . 2: ) , , , . . ) , , , , . . , . : , , , , , . , . , . , . , , , . , : (115) I regret my decision to return home. . "" -- . , , "", (116) I regret that I'm deciding to return home. , . , "" (-, -) "in ongoing, . , "" " ", "", "" .. , -- , .. , , , , , -- / , / .." . , : 1: , . 2: , , : - , , ; : , . 3: , , an ongoing (/, ). , , , , - , , / . , , , : 17) Their failure to sec their own children received no recognition. . "" ", ( , ). , (118): (118) I dashed on front of the car. . , pvi.vKi'm , , !,! nu'in}i.l.in:!iui.nn :|\ ". , n.i , , 11[", ()ilS:!ill:l'!n, [1 1(1 '1,1-, -- liplt-4 1||W" . , . , . (119) My divorce is painful. 1 nominalization (divorce) . () (120) Horror is blocking us. . 1 () (121) My wife's laughter causes my anger. . 2 (, ) (122) Your refusal to leave here forges my departure. . 2 (, ) (123) Your perception is curiously wrong. . 1 () (124) Your projection causes me injury. , 2 (, (125) My confusion has a tendency to give me no relief. 2 , (, ) (126) I resent your questions. - 1 , () (127) I'm afraid of both your rage and your help. , 2 , (, ) , , . , : (l29) I am surprised at her I am surprised that she is resistance to me. resisting to me. . . , , , , , . . , , , , , . My divorce is painful. . Our terror is blocking us. . My wife's laugh causes my anger. . Your refusal to leave here forces my departure. . Your perception are seriously wrong. . My wife and I divortant is painful. . Our being terrified is blocking us. , . My wife's laughing causes me to feel angry. , . Your refusing to leave here forces me to depart. , . The way are/what you parceiving is seriously wrong. To, , . Your projection causes me injury. . My confusion has a tendency no relief. . I resent your questions. . I'm afraid of both your rage ad your help. , . The way that you are/what projecting injures me. To, , . My being tends to stop to give me from feeling relievend. To, , . I resent what you are asking/the way you are asking me. , . I'm afraid of both the your rage at me and the way you help me. , , . , , , , . . , , : (130) The decision to return home bothers me. . , "" , ; : (131) Is there any way that you can imaging your decision? , - ? (132) What is it that prevents you from changing your decision? ? not to return home? , ? , . . , , . , . , . , , , . , , , , . , The decision to return home bothers me. , , , , : (134) Who is deciding to return home? ? , . , , . , - . My pain is overwhelming. . (136) It's my fear that gets in my way. . (137) I have hope. . (138) My son's believes worry me. . (139) Your bigoted suspicion annoys me. . Your feeling pain about whom/what is overwhelming whom? To. /, ? Your being afraid of whom/what gets in your way of what? To, /, What arc you hoping for? ? Your son believes what that worries you? , , ? Bigoted toward whom/what? /? ? , , ; , . , - . , ^ . I want to make a chair. I want to make a decision. . . , (, ) . (, ). " . . , H. I have a lot of frustration - . I expect a letter. . My fear is just too big. . I lost my book. . I need water. . Horses frighten me. . The tension bothers me. . I have a lot of green marbles. . I expect help. . My coat is just too big. . I lost temper. . I need love. . Failure frightens me. . The dragon bothers me. . , , . , , , "/", . , "/", . : , . - . , , , , , , , . , " " " ". , : (1) . (2) , , - , . (3) , , , , . . . : (1) , ; (2) . , . , . , : (140) People push me around. . "" , , . , (141) My father pushes me around. "", ""), , . : 1: . 2: : - , , , . , , , , , (142) Nobody pays any attention, to what I say. "" "" , , . (143) 1 always avoid situations I feel uncomfortable in. ", " -- . (144) I like dogs that are friendly. , . -- . (t45) I saw my mother-in-law yesterday. -- . (146) One should respect others feelings. . "" "" -- . (147) It's painful for us to see her this way, you know. . "" "" -- . (148) Let's not get bogged down in details. He . "" -- . (149) There's a certain feeling in this room. " " . -- . (150) Everybody feels that way sometimes. - "", "-- - ", "- - . " -- . , , . : (151) Who, specifically? ? ? (152) What, specially? ? ? , , , , . , . Nobody pays any attention to what I say. , . I always avoid situation 1 feel uncomfortable in. , . I like they are friendly. , . Who, specifically? what specifically, do you say? ? ? What situations, specifically? ? What dog, specifically? ? It's painful for us to see her this way, you know. . ? ""? ? Everybody feels that way Who, specifically? What way, specifically? What time, specifically? - - . ? ? ? . , : 1l "", each, every "", any "" . , -- never "", nowhere "", none "", no one " ", nothing "". , . , , . , . Nobody pays any attention to what I say. , . , (153) You to tell me that NOBODY EVER pays attention to you AT ALL? , , ; , , , . , . , . , . , , , . .: Nobody pays any attention to what I say. , . .; Do you mean to tell me that NOBODY EVER pays attention to you AT ALL? , , ? .: Well, not exactly. . .: OK, then; who, specifically, doesn't pay attention to you? , ? , . () , . , ; , ^. , , . , . : .: Ifs impossible to trust anyone. . .: It's always impossible for anyone to trust anyone? , ? -- , . , . . () , , , : , . : : It's impossible to trust anyone. . .: Have you ever had the experience of trusting someone? -? Have you ever trusted anyone? , - ? , . , ( "" ( ) ""), , (, ""). () , : , . .: It's impossible to trust anyone. . .: Can you imagine any circumstance in which you could trust someone? , -? Can you fantasize a situation in which you could trust someone? , - ? , , , , , , : . , , , , . : Do you trust me right now in this situation? ? , . , ; , . () , , , , . - , , , , , , . .: It's impossible to trust anyone. . .: Have you ever gone to the doctor(or to the dentist, riden in bus or taxi or airplane...)? Did you trust the doctor + (or dentist, or bus driver, or...)? - () , ..? , , , ..? , , , , , . () , ,